Do you struggle to know what to text someone new?
Do you stare at your screen for far too long thinking of how to reply to that cute person in your DM?
Getting to know someone new over text can be tricky and quite overwhelming for some. But it doesn’t have to be!
With my Secret Formula, you’ll be sure to attract the one you’re after and lock in that dream date!
When it comes to dating, the same old “hi, how are you?” back and forth style of conversation becomes boring and often leads to the friend zone or even being completely ghosted.
Follow these extra tips to create chemistry and an engaging conversation.
Tip 1: Don’t make the conversation sound like an interview
Don’t ask questions that can be answered in their resume. Find ways to ask these routine get-to-know-you questions in a way that naturally bounces off the conversation.
Instead of asking the boring question “what do you do for work?”
Try asking “what was your dream job as a child” then use the secret formula to reply and ask the question “what do you do for work now?”
Tip 2: Leave Room for Mystery
Make it fun to get to know each other and leave some mystery for the date.
Keep some information to yourself that would be an interesting topic to discuss on the date.
Tip 3: Power of Linguistics
Say the right thing and you’ve got that hot date. Say the wrong thing and it all goes out the window.
For Women: Be flirtatious and use suggestive language to keep the conversation playful and light-hearted.
For Men: Be confident and build rapport. When the conversation is peaking and flowing be assertive and ask her out.
To soften the mood and seem less intense use the phrase “it’s up to you” or “if you would like to” at the end of your suggestion. This simple phrase can be a powerful tool to take pressure off both yourself and your love interest.
THE SECRET FORMULA:
The Secret Formula to texting creates attraction, prevents ghosting and is as simple as 3 easy steps.
ACKNOWLEDGE – Properly acknowledge the other person and what they have said.
COMPLIMENT – Compliment and use positive language in response
QUESTION – Ask interesting or purposeful questions to keep the conversation flowing.
If you’re burning to ask them out on a dinner date use the formula like this:
“What’s your favourite cuisine?”
Acknowledge their response.
“….I love Italian…”
Compliment them based on their response and use it to frame your question
“Ah, a woman with taste just as good as her looks”
“I’d love to take you to my favourite Italian restaurant, when are you free?”
OR if you really want to show that you are genuinely interested in getting to know them and have acknowledged what they’ve said, use their responses to plan a more unique date. Based on their profile infer what they may have a significant interest in. It could be hiking or gaming- anything. If it is less obvious then ask a question relating to an activity or hobby they’re good at or enjoy doing.
“I am really good at ________.”
Acknowledge this response and compliment them.
“Wow, that sounds like fun. You sure do get up to some exciting things!
“We should go there / do that … ! Are you up for a challenge?”
Implement these hot tips with the formula for engaging conversations that will help create chemistry and attraction before your date.
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