Everybody knows the opportunities to meet someone online are endless but sometimes there comes a time when you just need to take a break from technology and get out and meet people organic way.
If you want to know the best places to meet single men offline, then read on.
When you’re looking to meet a genuine man it’s important to be proactive, and expand your circle because thinking outside the square helps you attract the man you want. Here are some simple ideas for you to meet single men offline effortlessly.
1. HOST A SINGLES PARTY.
Invite your single friends and acquaintances to a party and ask them to bring a single person from the opposite sex. You can host the party at home, a BBQ at the park, an ambient wine bar or pub. To help boost the numbers, ask each person attending to invite five single friends. Secondly ask each of them to bring a single friend along. You just never know who will be there, because all it takes is one! 😉
2. JOIN A SPECIAL INTEREST GROUP
Thanks to Google, there are endless opportunities to join a single group. You might want to join a special interest group, travel group, hiking, photography, art, social club, or whatever your specific interest is. Get on google and see what is out there. The best part about this is you can do this alone because everyone else will be in the same boat.
3. ATTEND A SINGLES EVENT
There are so many singles events that are hosted by business out there from speed dating, trivia night, holiday event, meet up singles event whatever takes your fancy. And if you can’t find what you are looking for jump onto meet up and create your own group. It’s free, fun, and effective.
4. ATTEND SPORTING EVENTS
If you like sport, this is a huge bonus get yourself to a football game, golf event, the tennis, basketball, the polo, or the races. Men love to watch sports, especially in groups; this opens doors to expand your network and meet single men.
5. SAY ‘YES’ TO INVITATIONS
You must be in it to win it. Get out more even if it’s after work drinks, going to a reunion, a wedding, an art gallery, the library, trivia night, or a party. If you get out, you may just meet the right man. The most important thing is you are getting out and taking action.
6. JOIN A GYM
Gyms are a great way to meet single men, and you get the bonus of getting into shape raising your confidence and feeling good. If gyms aren’t your scene try a running club, sailing, yoga or golf. Even if you make female friends, it could open up doors to expand your friendship circles, so you have someone to go out with, or maybe they might know someone right for you!
7. SEMINARS AND NETWORKING EVENTS
Networking events and seminars are the perfect places for meeting like-minded people. Yes, some of the people attending will be in relationships but others won’t, it will take a bit of time to chat to get to know the person or ignite the chemistry. I remember taking my clients to networking events regularly, especially speed networking events with over 100 people attending and the percentage of them who would find their future husband or wife was huge!
8. GO TO A PUB TO WATCH A MAJOR SPORTING EVENT
When a major sporting event such as a national game of any sport, football, a fight is being shown on at a pub, this will draw men in like moths to a flame. The added benefit is the ratio of men to women is in your favour. So get out, put on your best outfit, grab a girlfriend, and head on out and make the most of it. Make sure you are approachable by smiling, laughing, and having fun. Oh, and keep your group small. Ideally, it will be no more than 2 or 3 of you because that it’s easy for the single men to come and say hi to you.
9. BE APPROACHABLE
This is probably the most important tip for you because it creates opportunity. In fact, in your everyday life you could meet the man you have been searching for. Even if it’s traveling to and from work, when you go and grab your coffee or lunch, taking your dog to the park, putting petrol in your car or doing your grocery shopping these little outing present opportunities to meet men. So, when you’re out make sure you put your phone down and exercise your amazing facial muscles, that means don’t be shy and give a stranger a smile. Take a moment to give someone eye contact or if appropriate, say hi. You just never know what might happen if you open yourself up!
Finally, every day is a new chance to meet someone new, yet so many of us are on autopilot. Put your phone down and lift your head up. Most importantly take action, it’s the smallest things that make a difference, and the right mindset is the secret to finding the one.